All that glitters ain't gold...

Hello ladies and gents, it's ya girl Untouched Jewel in the building! I know I haven't been writing as much, but I thought since I have been thinking about some things today, I might as well jot them down, give y'all some literature. LOL.

Well to start, for the past couple of days my back has been killing the hell out of me. Okay, for those whose minds are in the gutter: no, I wasn't lettin some dude blow my back out in the most outrageous way possible (though it would have been nice...just playin). It started on Friday and hasn't stopped yet. I hope it will be fine when I go to work, 'cause sista like me need every penny, nickel, dime, quarter and foldable bill I can get my hands on for the holidays.

Okay, moving along. The reason I titled this post what it is, because of course I had been going through alot since March, and I've finally come to a discovery about alot of things with the situation I dealt with, and actually learned something valuable. Of course I have had far fewer conversations with HWSNBN'd, and there were some truths revealed to me by him, and it made me think back on alot of words that were exchanged by myself and his "wife". Just so y'all know, and I'm gonna keep it 100: I DON'T LIKE THAT BITCH! I'll explain that one in a lil bit. LOL.

Of course I had forgiven him for what he did to me and all, but I wouldn't take his ass back if someone paid me a million dollars to do it. I'd just take the money and disappear. LMAO. Trust and believe there are a good number of y'all females out there that are baby mamas, and you would feel the same damn way about your baby's daddy, too. Don't even get it twisted! Anywho, so recently I asked him to do me a favor of not trying to put her on a pedastal to tear me down or make any comparisons to me, because it's not right. He starts going on a tangent about how she and I both are talking shit to him. UMMMMMMMM, last time I checked, his ass was the one who lied to everybody involved in the shit storm he created. The only thing I did was address the situation, and put his ass on front street. Now in wifey boo's case, she got the nerve to have her ass on her shoulders with me, because I tried doing her dumb ass a favor by letting her know her "husband" ain't shit. Can I get a witness?!

Now, the reason I can't stand her, is because one day she and I had it out in a phone conversation where I had sent him an email earlier that day telling him I didn't want to be bothered with bullshit, and that I wasn't about to sit around and kiss either one of them's asses knowing there was alot of bullshit going on. So like I figured, he showed her the email, and she goes on this tangent about me putting her name in my mouth. So, she sends me a text message about that shit, I called her since there wasn't enough room to text what I was about to say. So yeah, she and I exchanged words, and she tells me some shit about he was so much happier, because he found better. ROTFLMAO. Okay, now alot of y'all that saw the post where I busted his ass, you can already see her, and when I say she looks like Shrek, BELIEVE IT!

Here's where I'm about to voice my opinion on this: first and foremost, if wifey is all of that and some Flaming Hot Cheetos, she wouldn't have to put emphasis on some shit she already knew. Second: any bitch with sense wouldn't say no ignorant shit like that to a baby mama. That's automatic cause for an ass whoopin by the bm, and probably some of her hood ass cousins and friends. Third: if the pussy was all that good, ya man wouldn't even be bothered in speaking with his baby mama (even if it had something to do with the kids). GET YA MIND RIGHT! You the one sitting around letting some sorry ass man gas your head up with bullshit, and little do you know he would be the one that would get ya ass brought to you in the worst way imaginable. Anybody can have a title, but that shit don't last forever. And any woman that's a wife can say what the fuck they want about a baby mama, but just know this (and let it sink in real good, too): WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE FALLS APART AND THE TWO OF Y'ALL GO ON ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS, THE BABY MAMA IS STILL IN THE MIX LIKE CAKE BATTER. SHE AIN'T GOTTA FUCK HIM TO BE AROUND. AS LONG AS THERE IS A CHILD THAT THE TWO OF THEM SHARE, THE BABY MAMA IS FOREVER A PERMANENT FIXTURE IN THAT MAN'S LIFE. AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, LIKE LUDACRIS SAID IT BEST: BLOW IT OUT YA ASS!!!!!

So ladies and gents, just because we marry or date somebody new, don't mean the grass is always greener. What you think is better, could be far worse than what you had to start with. Just because someone else comes along and offers you the world that the other person couldn't, don't be foolish enough to go from sugar to shit, because when the sugar is gone, you are left with shit. Truth be told, I'll miss HWSNBN'd, but I'm glad I'm not his stupid ass "wife". LOL. She'll learn eventually...and when all's said and done, we'll see who's still standing. So ladies and gents, don't believe the hype with the one you're with, because.....ALL THAT GLITTERS AIN'T GOLD, AND ALL THAT'S NEW EVENTUALLY BECOMES OLD.

Until the next post,
Peace & Blessings,
Untouched Jewel

P.S: y'all men need to keep ya eyes peeled for golddiggers! Not all of them are small in the waist and cute in the face. There's some ugly mofos out there, too. Shrek is a prime example. LMAO.