Hey ladies and gents, it's Untouched Jewel. I'm writing this post, because for the life of me, I just can't seem to get an understanding of why men do the shit they do under the guise of human behavior.
Sure, human behavior is what a big part, if not all, of what our lives are based on. But at what point do we lose ourselves and what makes us happy because of it?
For as long as I have interacted with men, I have seen them do and experience some of the dumbest shit, to later on in life still be in the same predicament and miserable as all hell.
Take for instance men in relationships and marriages. SOME men will marry a woman for reasons other than love, and be in a relationship/marriage for years to bitch and complain, but through all that, will not leave. Everybody's got the excuse about it's for the sake of the kids. LEAVE THE KIDS OUT OF YA BULLSHIT! The real reason to stay is you ain't tryin to come outta CHSUP (child support) or alimony when some shit hits the fan.
I honestly believe that human behavior is man's biggest downfall, because the stupid shit they put themselves through in spite of what they really feel. If you aren't happy, why go to great lengths to make your life even more complicated to appease someone else's insecurity? When are you gonna learn to at some point start basking in your own happiness?
In conclusion, if you're gonna let that swift kick in the ass called human behavior control your happiness to make someone else feel better when you are feeling like yesterday's garbage, DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT SHIT! Take your lumps like a man while your spouse or s.o. got you proverbially by the balls to do what they want. Just remember: once a doormat, always a doormat.
Until Next Post,
Peace & Blessings,
Untouched Jewel
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