Proceed with Caution!!!

Hey ladies and gents. It's ya girl Untouched Jewel.

Today's post is titled what it is, because over this past week I had a relative of mine whom was going through some things with the opposite sex, and it has been turning out for the worst. I won't go into too much detail about it (beit that there may be some legal stuff going on about it), but I've mentioned this to make a point, not to put someone else's business out in the street.

My relative was seeing someone for a brief moment, and when he didn't want to continue seeing her anymore, she didn't handle it too well. I say about a month ago, he changed his phone number, but didn't state any specific reason as to why he did it, but he did it. Fast forward to this past week: my relative's facebook page was hacked into, and some disparaging things were put on there to mess him up both personally and professionally. My mother (yes, my mom has a facebook account, too) brought it to my attention--since he's also on her friends list as well, and by the time I seen it, I was floored. At first I wanted to send him a message on there to find out what is going on. I became a little leary in doing so, because I didn't know if this would be him actually coming out with anything, or if it was someone else whom had access to his account and was making him look bad, so I sent him a text message. He replied back and stated that someone had hacked his account. So that brought a sigh of relief to me.

Later on that same day, my relative had contacted the proper people to straighten the mess out and get his account back under control (NOTE: from what I was told that he had closed his account about a week prior to this madness happening to him). So....the next day the "person" who hacked his account did the unthinkable: THEY HACKED INTO ANOTHER PERSON'S FACEBOOK ACCOUNT AND STARTED PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE ELSE-- A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR! When I saw his page again, I was like: "Ok, this must be the chick he stopped fooling with!" This person decides to post a comment message saying they were a private investigator and they had been watching his account for some time, and of course putting out the same disparaging stuff they did the day prior when they pretended to be him (my relative). So my mom decides to do some digging herself to find out what is going on (P.S.: I think my mom needs to be a lawyer or a private investigator herself. She knows how to dig deep and find out something. LOL). She was talking to this person, and was pretty much finding holes in this person's story all the way around, because everything they were talking about didn't make sense. So now my relative is filing a restraining order against the hacker (the broad he was seeing).

Anywho, the reason I'm telling this story, because men (and I'm not saying all of them) have a tendency to hook up with a chick, because she looks good and fails to see past the smokescreen of the fact that she may be psycho. Fellas, as Judge Mablean Ephriam says it best: "Look deep before you leap". And you know what? She's right! It's far too many men getting into these Thin Line Between Love and Hate relationships with crazy women, just to end up in jail or dead. Didn't the death of Steve McNair teach y'all anything?! That fool is dead, because he was messing around with a chick for months on end, taking her on expensive trips, and putting her up in a place that was six blocks from his home where he and his wife and kids reside. SIX BLOCKS! If that wasn't too close for comfort, I don't know what is. And what I couldn't seem to understand is how his wife didn't know he was screwing around before he was killed...*things that make you go hmmmmm* I digress....

Fellas, you gotta be careful whom you share your bed and personal information with. Even if you aren't doing dirt,  you never know the kind of woman you are entangling yourself. There are women out here who will flash you a smile and wear the tightest dress they can to get your 5 minutes of attention, and know somewhere along the line that you won't bit more pay attention to the fact that they are mentally disturbed. Crazy people seek out the next sucker, and if you are a prime target....guess what? They are drawn to you.
Ok guys, here is an idea that I strongly suggest you try: do a criminal background investigation on the next woman you meet, so you can save yourself the energy and hassle of filing your next restraining order on some crazy broad. There are such sites as Intelius, People Search, etc. that you can purchase for $35-$40. It's worth the investment than shelling out lawyer fees and court costs having to legally put a psycho broad under control.

Do yourselves and your loved ones around you a favor by steering clear of anyone crazy. You never know what kind of antics they may come up with. Being locked up or dead behind crazy people is not a good look.

Until next post,
Peace & Blessings,
Untouched Jewel