Hey ladies and gents, it's ya girl U.J. in the buildin! And....once again, I have come across some more Tom F**kery yet again, another one bites the dust.
Okay...there was this one guy I called myself talking to and he said he wanted to spend time with me while he was on vacation from work. I was like okay, that's cool. So he mentions that he wanted to go to Disneyland and what not, and I said it sounds like a good idea. I mentioned to him that I will be traveling to Chicago (which I did), and we can try to go after I get back. I came home from my trip, and was so exhausted that I hadn't called ANYONE for at least 3-4 days for trying to catch up on some sleep.
So I get a text message the next week from this guy, and he's asking me if I was back from my trip, and I was honest and told him when I got back. He immediately was mad at me, and had told me that he had left for a trip to Dallas and was gonna be gone for two weeks, and after that his vacation was over and he would be returning to work. I was slightly bummed, but I didn't trip out on him about it. So then he starts this crazy rant about how he spent hundreds of dollars on the Disneyland tickets and how they can't be used now that they have gone to waste. In my head I'm immediately thinking, how the hell did this fool buy tickets to "The Happiest Place on Earth", and didn't tell me what date we would be going? I began flooding him with a trillion questions about the whole ticket thing. He's all pissed and trying to make everything my fault, and that in turn made me mad as hell with him at this point and I was done with the conversation. Flash forward two weeks later (last night), he sends me another text message talking about why won't I apologize to him about the whole thing. Um...excuse me?! *neck rolling commences*
Okay, here's how the whole text conversation from last night commences:
Guy: WERE YOU WITH SOMEONE ELSE ON YOUR TRIP? CAUSE I SURE WASN'T.
Me: WITH MY KIDS & FAMILY
Guy: WELL SAME HERE...JUST DON'T GET HOW U MAD AT ME???
Me: I'M OVER IT. #SUBJECTDONE
Guy: SO U CAN'T EVEN SAY SORRY...NOTHING
Me: WHAT AM I APOLOGIZING FOR? YOU DOIN SOMETHIN I DIDN'T ASK YOU TO? WHAT DRUG ARE YOU ON?
Guy: THOUGHT WE HAD A DAY PLANNED...AND YOU WERE DOWN WITH IT...WOW UNBELIEVABLE...
Me: NO, YOU ARE UNBELIEVABLE. YOU COULD HAVE JUST AS EASILY PICKED UP A PHONE AND CALLED ME LIKE YOU ARE BITCHIN AT ME THROUGH A TEXT MESSAGE. SO YOUR LACK OF COMMUNICATION IS NOT MY PROBLEM, IT'S YOURS.
Guy: I AM SO DONE WITH YOU...YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID I'M BACK...OR SAID I CHANGE MY MIND OR I AM TIRED...SO AS I NOT WASTE HUNDREDS OF DOLLAR...NOW U CAN'T SAY SORRY...
Me: SO UR SAYING I TOLD U TO SPEND HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS?
Guy: YES U WANTED TO GO DIDNT YOU
Me: SAYING I WANTED TO GO AND TELLING YOU TO SPEND HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. AND YOU ARGUING WITH ME OVER STUPIDITY IS RIDICULOUS.
Guy: YEA YOUR RIGHT...STUPID FOR LIKING YOUR DUM ASS... (his spelling error, not mine lol)
Me: HA. LOL. I'M DUMB, BUT YOU GETTING MAD OVER MONEY. WHO'S THE DUMMY? EXACTLY.
Guy: U...U DUM ASS BITCH *cue in Dun, Dun, Dun music*
Guy: F**k off...lose my number
Me: THANK YOU. THE SAME BITCH YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE WITH. YOU ARE THE WEAKEST LINK...BUHBYE BIOTCHAY!
Me: OH, AND HOPE YOUR LEFT HAND IS AS GOOD TO YOU AS MY P**** COULD'VE BEEN. LOL.
Guy: DON'T WANT A CHANCE WITH...NEVER DID...EDDIE COLEMAN LOOK ALIKE...DONT Y I LET THIS GO ALONG THIS LONG
Me: EDDIE COLEMAN? LOL EVEN DUMBER THAN I THOUGHT. SMH.
Guy: GET A JOB...
Me: LET IT GO. I SEE UR STILL BUTT HURT. FIND A HOBBY, SOMETHIN.
So clearly, this character is stupid. You ASSUME (and you know what they say when you assume...) that because I say I wanted to go, you shell out your money all half-cocked, didn't give me a specific date of when you go on vacation or what day we go to Disneyland, didn't bother to call me, then have the nerve to get mad when you didn't get what you want...THAT TO ME IS STUPIDITY AT ITS FINEST. Men, please...I mean do please take note: When you want to take a woman out on a date or spend some time together, don't go on the assumption she knows what it is you want. Don't go on the assumption that she is supposed to call/text you. If you don't hear from her, you CAN pick up a phone and call her or text her to find out if things are okay or if she is still interested in going on the date or spending time with you. When you clearly don't communicate, things of the nature like the conversation mentioned above happen. You only bullsh** yourself when things don't go your way and you expect a woman to apologize or be at your beck & call...*shakes head* That's where your mistake comes into play.
This fool made a mistake and wants me to take the blame for it. No dumb ass....I'm not at fault for YOUR stupidity. And just like I say "common sense is the cure". Here's a clue: USE SOME.
Until Next Post,
Peace & Blessings,
Untouched Jewel
2 comments:
He's wrong and it's a lack of communication on his part when he could have called u. He knew you were going out of town. What, you're not human, and that you don't tire easily?? SMH. Glad u didn't give him the time of day. Mad cuz he lost a few hundred for a day planned.
That's exactly what his problem was. Because he initiated the date, and because I wasn't at his beckoning call, he wants to place blame on me, then call me outta my name. SMH. That's where he got his ppl mixed up! I ain't ur child, or some random chick you think you could talk to any ole kinda way...screw that! Classic case of the village idiot.
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