Can You Cut it Out....? Please and Thank You!

Hey ladies and gents, it's ya girl Untouched Jewel...in the buildin!


Man, I can't believe summer is almost over *sniffles*. I was loving when the season was in the upswing, and now it's gone sooooo fast. Well, the somewhat up side to it is my kids will be going back to school (YESSSSSS!!!) Down side: I can't enjoy summer like I want to, but such is life. Seasons change, so there's more to come with the rest of 2011. Anywho, moving along.


What I want to talk about is men whom are taught early in life to play with as many women as possible young before settling down. To a certain extent I don't disagree with it. However......when you are going around as a man being nothin short of a hoe, then hit 40 or 50 then wanna settle for a chick, but wanna settle for a younger female. Um, no bueno son! Nothin turns me off like a male hoe who done been around the block more times than enough, then when they are "farted out" (thanks big sis for this term lol) and can't keep up, they wanna settle. Get the f**k outta here with that b.s.!



 It's one thing to forever be a bachelor or decide to make up in your mind to be a family man. But PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE....don't waste life "playin the field" then decide to settle later. Here's a newsflash (in case you don't know): YOUNG CHICKS AIN'T CHECKIN FOR NO OLD ASS MAN! And if they are, they're like the Capital One slogan: "What's In Your Wallet?" Anybody with sense knows Anna Nicole Smith was with J. Howard Marshall because that fool was a tycoon. Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles and The Blind Boys of Alabama could see that! Let's all face the reality (whether male or female) that anyone young who dates an older person is only in it to win it, because they (the older person) have something they (the younger person) wants. Now don't get me twisted when I say this: I like older men. However, I will NOT date or marry a man that's old enough to be my dad or granddad--under NO CIRCUMSTANCES!


All I'm saying men is don't discount the women whom are in your age bracket, or burn yourself out being a hoe. It's not a good look at all. All you end up doing is cutting your nose to spite your face passing up something good "playing the field" and when you are out of commission for love and dating, no women worth her salt wants to be bothered with you. Sure enough you should take the time to explore your options, but do it with moderation. Better yet, do with class and dignity. I mean men expect women to be classy all the time...why can't y'all do the same for women? It's not like we want a man who's a hoe. At least I know I don't. Be men, NOT HOES! Figure out what it is you want in someone and then stick with it. Burning yourself out and then settling after the fact isn't cute by no means. I know as a woman, I don't want to be someone's last resort or second choice in settling down with. I want to be the only choice or no choice at all. It's just that black and white!



Until Next Post,
Peace & Blessings,

Untouched Jewel